So...like, a month ago Brian asks me if I want to go to a baseball game with him. I say yes, and assume that's that. Then, like three days ago, without actually telling me he had changed his plans, he mentions going to the game with his mom. I was upset, but it's his mom and I pretty much figured he forgot he asked me, so I don't say anything.
So, today, we're sitting there and he tells me his mom doesn't want to go and do I want to. Again, I'm like, yeah. I fall asleep since it's like, ten. I wake up at one, he's outside. I walk out there where he's finishing washing his car, and he says...so...my mom wants to go again.
I was seriously, kind of pissed. What the hell am I supposed to say, no, your mom can't go? So I was like, then go with her.
Twice. He did this to me twice, and I was mad at him, because he's done this twice, and she put me in a really shitty position. She pretty much made him bail on me, and if I say anything to him about this it's just going to start a fight which I really don't want, I tried to get over it, but when I got home and told my mom about it she got really mad.
She liked him, now she doesn't, she thinks he should have stood up for me or something, but it's not really Brian's fault, it's his moms, shes playing some kind of game with me. Half the time I feel like she doesn't like me, her and Brian took vacation on the same days and he wanted to spend all those days with me and she wanted to spend those days with him, and I felt like, the whole time she was wishing I wasn't there. And it's not like I can say anything, because like I said, it's his mom and it'll just cause a fucking problem between him and I. I mean, he's 24, someone needs to cut the cord, but maybe it's different for you and I, we were much more independent growing up, and living with our parents until we're 24 is like the worst kind of punishment we can imagine.
I dunno, I just wanted to vent to you about it, because I can't say anything to him about it, unless I delicately word it, and even then there are no guarantees, but let me tell you, when we got home today from lunch and she was sitting in there waiting, ready to go, I was so fucking mad at her. Its like Nicks mom, where it's like he has to pick, her or me, and I don't want to do that again.
BLEHHHHHHHH

-mb