No, I'm saying we talked about it ~before~ our first date. All that was on the table before we ever even started dating. I'm not saying that's normal, or that everyone should do it. I'm just saying that I liked it. I like knowing what I'm getting myself into, and so does William. I've been on very few first dates that didn't turn into relationships, and those dates were with people that I ~didn't~ get to know first. Most of the time, if I agree to a date, it's because I see legitimate life-long potential with the person, and I just can't get that out of the first 5 minutes with someone.

I like disagreeing, but not arguing. I hate debating with someone who gets really angry/upset when you disagree with them. I also don't like debating something when I feel like the other person knows a great deal more about the subject than I do. It makes me feel like an idiot, and I usually try to change the subject. William and I, for that reason, don't really argue a lot. We both know a lot about different things. So, we might talk about them, and one of us might occasionally say we disagree, but for the most part we just listen to each other, and hear what the other person's opinion on whatever is. He's got a lot to say about religion, and I've got a lot to say about music, and we learn a lot from each other by talking about that stuff. It's just something that we enjoy, while we also enjoy being silly.

I do not want to go to work today... ugh. Sundays suck. it's my longest work day, and I always have homework I need to be home doing (because I procrastinate) but I can't because I'm at work, wishing I could die.